Well, I have been on here for a whole year... looking back I should have been one of those guys who joins up, attracts the attention of a few like minded porn lovers and then deletes their profile within a week. If it was just the porn then I might have done that, but porn creates a community around it... same as anything popular :) So I hung around.. Eventually I uploaded a few pics of me and some selections from my personal porn stash... surprisingly they took off! I know I have'nt uploaded anything of me in a long time but i hope to fix that soon.… Ler mais

I recently (today) bought a pair of nipple suckers to try and improve my less than impressive nipples. The ones i have are the balloon style silicone ones (like these but mine are hot pink instead of black. http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51rR4i72SRL._SY355_.jpg ) So my question is... are there any side effects to using these suckers a lot? I have been wearing them for a couple hours now and my nipples are really puffy and sensitive... not like that is a bad thing :) I'm trying to make my nipples stick out more, but i don't want to hurt myself and i cant find any info about these… Ler mais

I'm not calling you a perv, that is the title of the book. Perv: The Sexual Deviant in All of Us. It's a non-fiction/research based book written by Jesse Bering, a man who happens to have a penis (read the book if you don't get that last bit.) He is a noted university professor, author and LGBTQ rights advocate. Perv is the only book of his that I have read (and I want to read more of his work) and I highly recommend reading it. P.S. Remember this book was written by a university professor and deals with some abstract and controversial concepts about human sexuality. I don't agree wit… Ler mais

Masturbating as a guy seems pretty simple. Grab your cock with your preferred hand and stroke until you cum. Toys, lube, lingerie, porn, your favorite flavor of "recreational substances"... all of these things are accessories for jerking off or sex... (dramatic pause...) OR ARE THEY!?!?! Is there another way for a man to get himself off besides traditional masturbation? Depending on your mental and physical abilities and the length of your cock there are three other ways (that I know of) to get off using only your sweet self :) And I have done each of them once. lets start with somethin… Ler mais

Hooking up online is an easy way to get laid most of the time. But I have noticed an annoying trend of people who happily chat, describe "themselves", share fantasies, agree to get together... then block me, stop chatting or stand me up whenever we make a date. What is the deal with these people? Are they assholes/trolls who get off by messing with other people? Are they super closeted people who just can't bring up the nerve to close the deal? Is there a reason for this behavior that i haven't thought of? All opinions are welcome and any ways to spot people like this are very much appre… Ler mais

I really want to get a new sex toy, doesn't really matter if it goes in me or I go in it ;) Any recommendations? Don't be shy i'm really open to any suggestions! I already have a fleshlight, butt plug and silicone double dildo. P.S. I have been thinking about a butt plug with a ring base on it, so I could tie streamers or a tail on it ;)… Ler mais

The chick in the blue swimsuit (my avatar) is a much younger Sofia Vergara. She has been my avatar since I joined xham and that is not going to change, but a new GIF of her would be fun. But Xham seems to have changed the rules about avatar size since I joined and all of the free GIF maker sites I know of don't make GIFS large enough to meet Xhams requirements. Any suggestions? I know I could use a JPEG... but I love to see those tits bounce.… Ler mais

The last few months have been some of the best in my life. I have been to great parties, made new friends (here and offline), work has been going well, saw my brother wed the perfect woman for him, saw my parents for the first time in weeks, and most recently I took a lover who I met here on xham. It hasn't always been this way and the cynic in me says it can't last forever, but I am so much happier than I was only a few years ago... What I am posting here is not sexy, nice or fun. It's the opposite of that, (it's the opposite of me) it's what I used to be for a time. If you dont want t… Ler mais

This is not meant to insult or ridicule anyone, these are simply my personal views on BDSM. Bondage, Domination, Sadism, Masochism. This is BDSM. It's a hard concept for many people to get behind, let alone somebody like me who only wants sensual and caring sex. But bits of it have some appeal to me so lets go from the worst to the best parts of BDSM for me. Masochism: Pain is not sex for me, it's not sexy, it's not fun... it's pain....it hurts. Sadism: I might have sex with somebody and accidentally cause them pain and not know it if they said nothing. But beyond a few slaps to… Ler mais

When I first posted this question/game in my blog I didn't get any responses so I made it my status. The first person to guess her identity was mrmoon29 and he figured it out less than 2 mins after I updated my status. I received his guess in a PM and so i let the game roll for a while and gave out some extra hints, here are the winners. 1st place: mrmoon29 2nd place: dlcalguy 3rd place: backassward Thanks a lot to everyone who took the time to make a guess!… Ler mais

She is from Columbia and was a TV actress and show host there. She still does acting in North America but is also known for her voice acting in animated movies. When she was younger she also did bikini and calendar photos.… Ler mais

She is sexy isn't she? She has been my avatar since I joined up on xham. Can any of you name her? I will give a hint, she is quite well known in the USA and Canada today but was popular in her home country long before her fame in north america. My avatar is of her in those early days. I was actually a fan of her before she became mainstream in north america and like to follow her career. An image search won't help you much, my avatar is a custom GIF made by me. So who is she? ;) Update, more hints: She is from Columbia and was a TV actress there in her younger days. Now she… Ler mais

Straight, gay, all flavors of trans, I might even be able to write a lesbian sex story if you can convince me I am a girl! ;) Bring on the suggestions! If you liked any of my fantasy swimsuit sex stories (or even if you hated them) and have a hot idea for a good one post it here! I prefer suggestions that could possibly happen to the average bisexual guy, but am open to super unlikely stuff. The only rules are: must include swimsuits, must not include pain/****/torture/i****t or any i*****l stuff. I read all suggestions but I will not write about anything painful. If you wanna know what… Ler mais

The first time I was ever REALLY kissed by someone. This is 100% true. My very first sexual experience. I was 12 years old, in middle school (or junior high as it's called around here) and I was only just hitting puberty. I was mostly interested in video games and card games at the time but I had noticed the budding breasts on some of my female schoolmates. This was before I began to suspect I was bi and I was barely interested in sex at all. I was reading a book in the school library, (my family is not rich and library books and TV were my chief form of entertainment then.) I had n… Ler mais

I will make a long story short for new readers. I recently saw a pic on here of my cousin and belived that this pic had been posted without my cousins knowledge or consent. It was very distressing, but unable to find this pic anywhere else or any other like it and the fact that the pic looks a few years old I have decided to let it go. Thank everyone who helped/advised me either here on in PMs.… Ler mais

Thought you all might like to hear my thoughts on our favorite porn site before and after being a member for one month ... I had never joined a porn site until a month ago. I have frequented loads of sites for years including xhammy, but figured joining any of them was pointless as I could already see all the content I wanted. Initially I only joined as a way to keep my favorite pics/vids organized. And why would I make pics/vids of myself? Seemed a stupid risk, what if somebody recognized me? Who would want to watch porn of me and my fetish anyway? And I can masturbate looking at m… Ler mais

Why is it still a problem that young people cannot publicly be what they are (or want to be) with no judgment leveled at them? Gays, lesbians and transsexuals have made huge steps forward in this area. Coming out as homosexual is practically a rite of passage for modern celebrities. But the average man or woman who publicly comes out of the closet is still seen as a sort of outsider. This is hard enough for the people I know of my own age group (25-35.) It is a living nightmare for k**s who are still in high school to publicly come out and say they are homosexual, bi, TG/TS or anything of… Ler mais